My mom on our Aruban vacation in June 2013 |
This week was rough.
It was a reminder to live abundantly, love generously, and laugh more. When you experience a traumatic event, whether it involves loss of life or not, you are changed. My mom went in for 'routine' hip replacement surgery on Tuesday. While in a math training at my district, I received this message from my Dad: On operating table, turned blue, cpr, assisted breathing, touch and go...
One short text reduced me to a puddle of tears. I'm thankful for friends who were praying for her and our family. I'm thankful for my mentor who prayed with me, for my brother who called to apologize for a years-long estrangement, for my aunt and cousin who went to be with her in the hospital, for people around the world that were praying (Cameroon, Honduras, Canada, UK, Nigeria), and for a good friend who kept reassuring me that 'It'll be fine.'
I vow to live my life abundantly, to love my friends and family generously, and to laugh and enjoy life. I vow to tell people I love them more, even if it makes them uncomfortable. I vow to spend more time with those I love and invest in our relationships, even when we are all busy.
This week is getting better.